"In an argument if you lose,you lose
but if you win you lose someone"
The day I joined PT,aptitude wise I have grown a little but to say attitude wise we all have overgrown.This bloody discussion thing has really peeped in our nerves like a poison.
We & particularly I are considering ourselves in the great league of "Karan Thapars & Arun Shoree" league material.Give us any dam topic in the world & we are ready with our swords to safeguard one's viewpoint.It as if somebody has attempted to sabotaged our virginity & now he shall be not left alive untill he either crumbles or changes his viewpoint.
These small batteles or heavy vocabulary shellings are majorly sponsered by PT,which I say slowly but surely created rifts between us.A simple question such as "THE DBMS TEACHER SUCKS"becomes a question of pride,esteem,dignity & what not for all of us & we pounce on the opportunity(topic) as hungry vultures each of us trying to grab the maximum meat.
And in this slaughtering of the topic we put our friendship at sake with words like
("ABHE CHUTTIYE" "TUJE LAND PATA HAI" " JAA GAND MARA" "KUCH BHII BOLTA HAI") fluttering out of our heavily loaded vocablic armoury.Common Guys we are not at war on this bloody ,every other day atopic comes and weakens our palace of friendship if not shatters it.Common no one of us is a robot it hurts and it some times pains.
But we are such "argument cravy" loggerheads that next time we enter the discussion with more zeal and zest & with more precise facts and figures.To this some of my close friends(As I consider them)might say that this is a bullshit & these things really dont do any harm to the bonding. GDically Iappreciate their viewpoint but I believe all of us have emotions & all of us feel the pain of those slaughtry words.Knowingly or Unknowingly we all get hurt & this bitters the bond that we share.
If getting in IIMS or to be more realistic JBMS is at the cost of loosing friends then"To hell with IIMS &JBMS AND GRES".Please lets just be friends and not form a parliment whereever we go with ruling party on one side and leaders of opposition on the other side.
I mean aginst we are competing one on the otherside of the battle ground is closest to me.And yes I differ from Lord Krishna sayings where he tells Arjun to fight against his closeones and treating them as strangers.
SORRY I DONT HAVE THOSE NERVES OF STEEL
AND YES I AM A COWARD WHEN IT COMES TO LOSING FRIENDS.
FROM NOW ON "NO MORE DISCUSSIONS ATLEAST FROM MY SIDE"
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3 comments:
dude... well written... i appreciate ur free writing. that shows ur boldness dude.
well i dnt gt
1: A simple question such as "THE DBMS TEACHER SUCKS" watz that???
welll in an all i liked motics.
and plz don get frustrated with all the examz.. we all will work hard for those examz together.
n comin back on those gdically talks, itz part of our friendship dude, we don try to hurt anybody. that talks are truely not at all straightaway from our hearts dude....
great yaar.. good to see u out of the block.. keep blogging... and one thing for sure
When it hurts to look back, and you're scared to look ahead, you can look beside you and your best friends will be there.
well at last you have written something, was eagerly waiting for it.
Rather than your own philosophical and humorous analogies i quite liked this one which was straight from the heart.
To start with we can go on this topic also but you are forgetting that here we all will try to tell tht we will be friends or you will say tht this does not affect us so it al comes down to this that we have one aim only but approach is different.Hence there will be different plans,opinions but at the end we all want to reach the destination i.e our friendship.
Now speaking against i think yes there is no smoke without fire.But if you want that you should not have fight with your friends it means u r formal or there is no space being given by you so friend intent was good but you r worrying unnecessarily.
Now to blog dude variety thats wat i liked here and that too from the heart and in simple terms but you cud hv avoided hindi bad words and next time again surprise me with emotional humorous anything you want to share keep bloggin.....
at last u got rid of your block and are back. and with a bang of course. what i really liked was the sarcastic sytyle of humour(chandler,s style). but to be frannk if there are no fights in friendship then it will be meaningless and non significant.
so it's our true friendship which tells us that even if we express our views the person listening will understand and will appreciate ur thoughts.
we all do the same and that's why we are good friends.....
nice one and keep blogging
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