"In an argument if you lose,you lose
but if you win you lose someone"
The day I joined PT,aptitude wise I have grown a little but to say attitude wise we all have overgrown.This bloody discussion thing has really peeped in our nerves like a poison.
We & particularly I are considering ourselves in the great league of "Karan Thapars & Arun Shoree" league material.Give us any dam topic in the world & we are ready with our swords to safeguard one's viewpoint.It as if somebody has attempted to sabotaged our virginity & now he shall be not left alive untill he either crumbles or changes his viewpoint.
These small batteles or heavy vocabulary shellings are majorly sponsered by PT,which I say slowly but surely created rifts between us.A simple question such as "THE DBMS TEACHER SUCKS"becomes a question of pride,esteem,dignity & what not for all of us & we pounce on the opportunity(topic) as hungry vultures each of us trying to grab the maximum meat.
And in this slaughtering of the topic we put our friendship at sake with words like
("ABHE CHUTTIYE" "TUJE LAND PATA HAI" " JAA GAND MARA" "KUCH BHII BOLTA HAI") fluttering out of our heavily loaded vocablic armoury.Common Guys we are not at war on this bloody ,every other day atopic comes and weakens our palace of friendship if not shatters it.Common no one of us is a robot it hurts and it some times pains.
But we are such "argument cravy" loggerheads that next time we enter the discussion with more zeal and zest & with more precise facts and figures.To this some of my close friends(As I consider them)might say that this is a bullshit & these things really dont do any harm to the bonding. GDically Iappreciate their viewpoint but I believe all of us have emotions & all of us feel the pain of those slaughtry words.Knowingly or Unknowingly we all get hurt & this bitters the bond that we share.
If getting in IIMS or to be more realistic JBMS is at the cost of loosing friends then"To hell with IIMS &JBMS AND GRES".Please lets just be friends and not form a parliment whereever we go with ruling party on one side and leaders of opposition on the other side.
I mean aginst we are competing one on the otherside of the battle ground is closest to me.And yes I differ from Lord Krishna sayings where he tells Arjun to fight against his closeones and treating them as strangers.
SORRY I DONT HAVE THOSE NERVES OF STEEL
AND YES I AM A COWARD WHEN IT COMES TO LOSING FRIENDS.
FROM NOW ON "NO MORE DISCUSSIONS ATLEAST FROM MY SIDE"
Tuesday, August 12, 2008
Monday, July 21, 2008
RAIN DRAIN
Oh pls dont panic the monsoon isn't going abroad.Its that i opted the title to be so.Atlast its raining cats and dogs and you know these are the times when i really regret being a batchelor.Really
"LOVE IS IN THE AIR".Oh God its high time my parents give a thought of getting me married.At same time i am feeling a strong desire for mouth watering "PAKODAS" but in vain because my dietician mom would water boil them and serve them with salads so "WATER PAKODAS WONT WORK".
I was gloomy and bored the whole day but it seems the God just right clicked and refreshed me with this rain.Sitting on edge of my duplicate "sliding" windows I can see people(Woh Woh no I am not peeking in somebodys bedroom)everywhere on the busy road & can also see their diffrent reactions towaards rain.
First of all I see a taxidriver pulling his dry turned taxi & it seems the color of the taxi(BLACK YELLOW) are coming on his face along with the shade of angry red.To me he looks like a brand ambassdor of asian paints.
Hey I can look Jenelia getting wet in her white dress .Oh no you morons I am talking about the hoarding on the near by building of her
latest movie JTYJN.It is that Imran too is getting wet but thatis not what i am concerned because i am pretty much staright and hope the reader of the blog is too.
Great somebody is getting a free pizza today,the pizza guy is stuck at the signal & it looks he wont be able to make it in this lifetime
forget even about the timeline of half an hour.Wish I had ordered one ?
Whats that Mrs Khanna is giving a highway to Mr Chaddha.No she isnt an MP nor is in BMC,highway because line wont go with her size & also her age.
Simultaneously I can see a bunch of school kids with their leaking noses enjoying rain and jumping in puddles,surely the best sight so far.Oh God that song from Jagit Singh seems to be echoing in my ears -"Yeh daulat bhi lelo....
Yeh shaurat bhi lelo...."
Surely these diffrent visual experiences fill me with joy and me think how diffrent people react to rain in diffrent way.Similarly we all face adversities SOME TRUMBLE,SOME CRUMBLE but the brave just STAY HUMBLE & fight their odds just like the school children.
So dont be a taxi driver with a dry tank rather be a school child and enjoy the rain without any pain.
At last i would end this blog with my four lines-
Here comes the rain.
For some a joy train & for some brings pain.
Chin up and face it with a smile.
After all it would last only for a short while.
"LOVE IS IN THE AIR".Oh God its high time my parents give a thought of getting me married.At same time i am feeling a strong desire for mouth watering "PAKODAS" but in vain because my dietician mom would water boil them and serve them with salads so "WATER PAKODAS WONT WORK".
I was gloomy and bored the whole day but it seems the God just right clicked and refreshed me with this rain.Sitting on edge of my duplicate "sliding" windows I can see people(Woh Woh no I am not peeking in somebodys bedroom)everywhere on the busy road & can also see their diffrent reactions towaards rain.
First of all I see a taxidriver pulling his dry turned taxi & it seems the color of the taxi(BLACK YELLOW) are coming on his face along with the shade of angry red.To me he looks like a brand ambassdor of asian paints.
Hey I can look Jenelia getting wet in her white dress .Oh no you morons I am talking about the hoarding on the near by building of her
latest movie JTYJN.It is that Imran too is getting wet but thatis not what i am concerned because i am pretty much staright and hope the reader of the blog is too.
Great somebody is getting a free pizza today,the pizza guy is stuck at the signal & it looks he wont be able to make it in this lifetime
forget even about the timeline of half an hour.Wish I had ordered one ?
Whats that Mrs Khanna is giving a highway to Mr Chaddha.No she isnt an MP nor is in BMC,highway because line wont go with her size & also her age.
Simultaneously I can see a bunch of school kids with their leaking noses enjoying rain and jumping in puddles,surely the best sight so far.Oh God that song from Jagit Singh seems to be echoing in my ears -"Yeh daulat bhi lelo....
Yeh shaurat bhi lelo...."
Surely these diffrent visual experiences fill me with joy and me think how diffrent people react to rain in diffrent way.Similarly we all face adversities SOME TRUMBLE,SOME CRUMBLE but the brave just STAY HUMBLE & fight their odds just like the school children.
So dont be a taxi driver with a dry tank rather be a school child and enjoy the rain without any pain.
At last i would end this blog with my four lines-
Here comes the rain.
For some a joy train & for some brings pain.
Chin up and face it with a smile.
After all it would last only for a short while.
Thursday, July 17, 2008
EXPECTATIONS LEAD TO FRUSTATIONS
Before starting with the blog i would like to mention pls dont have any high expectations from this blog.I would like to commence my blog with these 4 lines-
Expectations from life may lead to frustations.
Expectations from politics may lead to early elewctions.
Expectations from love may lead to desperations.
& Expectations from friends can lead to isolations.
Yes,my dear dear friend it all starts with expectation,the root cause of all emotions,frustations.No matter what be the relation the trouble begins when you start expecting something or the other from the second person, it may be a friend,wife or even parents.
A person expects company from his friends when he is lonely but his friends might have other plans than to entertain him this may lead to isolation and one begims questioning friendship.The examples can vary in diffrent relation for eg- parents need a topper son, a lover needs attention of special someone all have got their yardsticks ready.
Even the freatest thoughts about friendship " A FRIEND IN NEED IS A FRIEND INDEED" itself seems to have expectation written all over it.
With recent experiences i believe why expect anything from others be master of your own destiny.
Earlier i was delaying writing a blog because i was expecting that whenever i write a blog my friends should love it but with recent experiences i have come over these expectations.
Never expect anything in life and in relations because expectations as far as i am concerned will lead to high hopes and when these expectations get shattered it really hurts and one starts thinking "I DIDNOT EXPECT THIS FROM HIM OR THEM OR LIVE".
See the agony of being a human now i expect that you put a comment on this blog "HUMAN NATURE".Thanks at the end for being patient enough to read all this.
Never expect anything from life.
Instead accept things that come from life.
Expectations from life may lead to frustations.
Expectations from politics may lead to early elewctions.
Expectations from love may lead to desperations.
& Expectations from friends can lead to isolations.
Yes,my dear dear friend it all starts with expectation,the root cause of all emotions,frustations.No matter what be the relation the trouble begins when you start expecting something or the other from the second person, it may be a friend,wife or even parents.
A person expects company from his friends when he is lonely but his friends might have other plans than to entertain him this may lead to isolation and one begims questioning friendship.The examples can vary in diffrent relation for eg- parents need a topper son, a lover needs attention of special someone all have got their yardsticks ready.
Even the freatest thoughts about friendship " A FRIEND IN NEED IS A FRIEND INDEED" itself seems to have expectation written all over it.
With recent experiences i believe why expect anything from others be master of your own destiny.
Earlier i was delaying writing a blog because i was expecting that whenever i write a blog my friends should love it but with recent experiences i have come over these expectations.
Never expect anything in life and in relations because expectations as far as i am concerned will lead to high hopes and when these expectations get shattered it really hurts and one starts thinking "I DIDNOT EXPECT THIS FROM HIM OR THEM OR LIVE".
See the agony of being a human now i expect that you put a comment on this blog "HUMAN NATURE".Thanks at the end for being patient enough to read all this.
Never expect anything from life.
Instead accept things that come from life.
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