"In an argument if you lose,you lose
but if you win you lose someone"
The day I joined PT,aptitude wise I have grown a little but to say attitude wise we all have overgrown.This bloody discussion thing has really peeped in our nerves like a poison.
We & particularly I are considering ourselves in the great league of "Karan Thapars & Arun Shoree" league material.Give us any dam topic in the world & we are ready with our swords to safeguard one's viewpoint.It as if somebody has attempted to sabotaged our virginity & now he shall be not left alive untill he either crumbles or changes his viewpoint.
These small batteles or heavy vocabulary shellings are majorly sponsered by PT,which I say slowly but surely created rifts between us.A simple question such as "THE DBMS TEACHER SUCKS"becomes a question of pride,esteem,dignity & what not for all of us & we pounce on the opportunity(topic) as hungry vultures each of us trying to grab the maximum meat.
And in this slaughtering of the topic we put our friendship at sake with words like
("ABHE CHUTTIYE" "TUJE LAND PATA HAI" " JAA GAND MARA" "KUCH BHII BOLTA HAI") fluttering out of our heavily loaded vocablic armoury.Common Guys we are not at war on this bloody ,every other day atopic comes and weakens our palace of friendship if not shatters it.Common no one of us is a robot it hurts and it some times pains.
But we are such "argument cravy" loggerheads that next time we enter the discussion with more zeal and zest & with more precise facts and figures.To this some of my close friends(As I consider them)might say that this is a bullshit & these things really dont do any harm to the bonding. GDically Iappreciate their viewpoint but I believe all of us have emotions & all of us feel the pain of those slaughtry words.Knowingly or Unknowingly we all get hurt & this bitters the bond that we share.
If getting in IIMS or to be more realistic JBMS is at the cost of loosing friends then"To hell with IIMS &JBMS AND GRES".Please lets just be friends and not form a parliment whereever we go with ruling party on one side and leaders of opposition on the other side.
I mean aginst we are competing one on the otherside of the battle ground is closest to me.And yes I differ from Lord Krishna sayings where he tells Arjun to fight against his closeones and treating them as strangers.
SORRY I DONT HAVE THOSE NERVES OF STEEL
AND YES I AM A COWARD WHEN IT COMES TO LOSING FRIENDS.
FROM NOW ON "NO MORE DISCUSSIONS ATLEAST FROM MY SIDE"
Tuesday, August 12, 2008
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